Get ready to live

a better life

Extensive counseling of LGBTQ people

37 years of being a Pastor - I’ve seen and heard everything, and I mean everything.

Two years Presbyterian Samaritan Counseling Center Training

Counseled over 1,500 hours in 2 year period

Reached Member level American Association of Pastoral Counselors (Note: This is pastoral consultation, not pastoral counseling.)

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After just one session, you’ll feel more

in control of your life.

Etensive Counseling of Wonderful LGBTQ People

  • General Life Problems

    Pastoral Consultation for anything and everything. It’s YOUR life, and your time with me to use how you want to use it. Nobody likes to be psychoanalyzed. We will work on making you a friend to yourself. Doesn’t that sound super duper!

  • Vocational Change

    The work place can be viscous. Corporations don’t care about you. They don’t. Supervisors can be viscous. You may need to change jobs. With artificial intelligence a lot of people will lose their jobs. We will work on helping you be able to reinvent yourself the rest of your life.

  • Depression

    You’ve been depressed a short time or a long time. We can help. Depression is depression. It is so hard and so dark. So hard to get out of the deep hole. We’ll provide tools, into, and most importantly, a relationship with me, a pastoral counselor, who is very familiar with depression, to get you out of the deep, dark, hole.

  • Pre-Marital Counseling

    You are going to get married. This is not to evaluate if you should get married. The knot will be tied. Consultations will help you with the out-laws, finances, sex, roles, and budget. We will identify issues that will surely surface in your marriage due to the families your grew up in. The problem with parents is they had parents. Your sex life will be much better.

  • Recovering from fundamentalist religion

    Very few things screw up a person more than fundamentalist religion. You may want to dump religion. Or, you may want to learn to have a healthy spirituality.

  • Aging/Aging Parents

    There are so many problems with the “golden years.” Lean to live them to the fullest. If you are already struggling mightily, let’s talk about coping skills. If you are an adult child of an aging or dying parent, let’s talk about taking care of your parent and taking care of yourslef.

  • Death/Grief

    Need help with death of a peron?

    Need help planning a funeral?

    Need help writing an obituary?

    Need help with grief? You can’t have the one thing you want: the person back.

  • Sex

    Sex is a great gift from God, but so many of us are screwed up sexually. Learn how to be healthier sexually.

    Have you been raped?

    Do you have orgasms÷

    Have you gained a lot of weight?

    Get ready for a better sex life? Get ready for a sex life if you don’t have one. Learn the two most sexual parts of your body. You will be surprised. NO PORN HERE>

  • Questions about God/Jesus/the Bible

    There are no wrong questions.

    Some of the answers will surprise you.

    I had “A” average for my Master of Divinity. Straight “A’s” for my

  • Being Bipolar or Living with/Relating to a Bipolar Person

    Bipolar people are great. They can be exhausting and challenging, though. And they can wreck havoc on themselves and others. Learn to make the best of bipolar.

"I have know Chris and his wife for 40+ years. I have been a best friend. I can tell you Chris is a really cool dude. He is real. Chris will act more like a best friend, than a consultant. He will not act like an all-wise person because he is not. He's wiser than you average humanoid, but he's wise enough to know that you have to do the work. Chris will be your friend, teach you to be a friend to your self, and to be curious about yourself, others, and God."

Kathy P.

Kathy P. and Vicky Ayers

“"Bear Creek Girls”